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I Thought Love Would Divide—Instead, It Multiplied in a Year

Seven months ago, I stepped away from writing--not because I had nothing to say, but because I was living something too big to pause and put into words. I was pregnant. And now, I'm a mother of two. this is the story I've been living. Can you imagine welcoming a newborn... just as your first baby turns one? Two babies.  Tow completely different needs. One mother--learning, adapting, and loving in ways she never imagined. Would you sleep? would you cope? Would your love be divided... or would it somehow grow? The Plan We Thought We Had My husband and I always imagined having children close in age. We loved the idea of siblings growing up side by side--sharing childhood, milestones, and memories. It felt like the perfect plan. What we didn't quite understand... was what that plan would look like in real life. Our daughter was born on January 22, 2025. Our son followed exactly one year later, on January 22, 2026. Same day. Same birthday. Exactly 12 months apart. Let me sit wit...
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🍎 A Spoonful of Love: Tiny Bites, Big Milestones

The past month has been such a special chapter in my motherhood journey: we started introducing solid food to my little girl, and what a journey it has already been! At just 7 months old, she has begun exploring flavors, textures, and her own tiny routines around eating. For her, every bite is an experiment--a playful, sensory adventure. for me, it is a mix of pride, excitement, and sometimes even longing, because I don't always get to be there for every meal; those tender emotions only a mother can feel. During the week, my husband and I are at work, so her nanny takes care of most of her meals. we prepare her meals carefully at night after work--boiling, mashing, keeping everything simple and gentle for her small tummy--and in the morning, we give her nanny clear instructions on what to feed her and when. Even tough we are away, a part of us is always with her through the meals. But the highlight of our weekdays is always her afternoon snack, when one of us come home and give her...

In Her Eyes: A Love Letter to Motherhood

In just a few days, my baby girl "Ayana" will turn six months old. Half a year since she made her entrance into the world, turning my life--and my heart--inside out. Nothing I've ever read, no advice anyone ever gave me, and no amount of preparation could have truly captured what these six months have been. Motherhood has been a revelation, and Ayana has been my tiny, powerful teacher, showing me lessons about life, love, and myself that I never knew I needed.  When I first held Ayana in my arms, I thought I would feel instant confidence. But what I actually felt was awe, fear, and an overwhelming sense of responsibility. Here was this perfect little human being, looking up at me with wide eyes that seemed to say, "You're my whole world now". It was as though he handed me a mirror and asked me to really see myself--both the best and the worst parts. And that has been the beginning of the biggest transformation of my life. Patience Beyond Measure Patience is ...

Me Time, Reimagined: Choosing Yourself and Creating a Life that Sustains You

 We live in a world of unrelenting schedules--work, studies, parenting, errands--and in the thick of it all, the idea of " Me Time " hovers like a promise of escape. It's that magical concept that says, " Take a break, you deserve it ". But what happens when this break becomes yet another source of guilt, pressure, or worse--disappointment? The concept of Me Time, once a lighthearted suggestion in women's magazines, has now become a buzzword in the wellness industry. But between glamorized instagram moments and bubble-bath fantasies, we've lost sight of what Me Tine really is--and isn't. More Than Spa Days and Silence Let's get one thing straight: Me Time is not just spa appointments, yoga retreats, or candles that cost more than dinner. It's about carving out space--mentally and physically--to reconnect with yourself. For some, this means reading, meditating, or journaling. For others, it could be organizing a closet, going for a walk, or si...

Magic in the Mundane: How I Learned to Love the Ordinary

 There was a time I found myself waiting--waiting for a milestone, a breakthrough, a big change. I thought joy came from monumental events, grand gestures, or ticking off a goal. But then something shifted. I began to realize that life isn't made up of grand fireworks. It's a collection of small, fleeting, everyday moments. And then we learn to romanticize those moments, life suddenly feels...more alive. What Does It Mean to Romanticize Life? The word "romanticize" might make you think of unrealistic expectations or sugar-coating the truth. But to me, it's not about pretending life is perfect. It's about shifting my perspective--learning to see beauty in the little things, and experiencing the present moment more fully and with intention. It could be as simple as lighting a candle before dinner, listening to soft jazz in the background, or sipping my morning coffee slowly instead of gulping it down while rushing. It's the small acts of mindfulness that inv...

Invisible Labor: The Hidden Work of Motherhood

 There's a to-do-list I never write down, but it's aways running. It's in my mind when I wake up, buzzing beneath the surface while I work and whispering in the background as I try to fall asleep. It's not on an app, or a sticky note, or a family calendar. But it's there--constant, quiet, and exhausting.  This is the invisible to-do-list: It's remembering the next doctor's appointment. It's knowing we're running low on toothpaste. It's tracking when the baby's onesies will be outgrown. It's realizing we're down to the last trash bag--and mentally noting to grab more. It's thinking ahead to birthdays, school events, and who needs an encouraging word this week. This list doesn't come with reminders or alarms. No one else gets a notification when something's overdue. It's just me--remembering. The Mental Load of Motherhood The mental load of motherhood can be an invisible burden that you carry day in and day out.This can ...

Unshaken: Building Dreams While Raising One

 Balancing a professional career and motherhood involves navigating a complex interplay of challenges and opportunities. It often requires a strong sense of resilience, communication, and support from both personal and professional networks. In this blog, I share the story of how motherhood transformed my career, not by slowing it down, but by infusing it with deeper purpose, sharper focus, and profound joy. My Career Path: Navigating Professional Growth as a Mom As I sit down to reflect on my career journey, it's clear that my role as a mother to my beloved daughter has profoundly shaped the trajectory of my professional life. From sleepless nights spent at my desk to the joyful moments watching her grow, the blending of career ambitions and family responsibilities has been both challenging and rewarding. Embracing Change The moment I became a mother, the lens through which I viewed my career began to shift. Suddenly, time felt more precious. The early morning meetings and the lon...