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Magic in the Mundane: How I Learned to Love the Ordinary

 There was a time I found myself waiting--waiting for a milestone, a breakthrough, a big change. I thought joy came from monumental events, grand gestures, or ticking off a goal. But then something shifted. I began to realize that life isn't made up of grand fireworks. It's a collection of small, fleeting, everyday moments. And then we learn to romanticize those moments, life suddenly feels...more alive.

What Does It Mean to Romanticize Life?

The word "romanticize" might make you think of unrealistic expectations or sugar-coating the truth. But to me, it's not about pretending life is perfect. It's about shifting my perspective--learning to see beauty in the little things, and experiencing the present moment more fully and with intention.


It could be as simple as lighting a candle before dinner, listening to soft jazz in the background, or sipping my morning coffee slowly instead of gulping it down while rushing. It's the small acts of mindfulness that invite a sense of calm and contentment into my day.

The Morning Ritual That Changed Everything

I used to wake up groggy and drag myself out of bed, already overwhelmed by the day ahead. Then one morning, I paused. I held my warm coffee mug and thought: What if I truly savored this first sip? That small moment of presence shifted something in me.

Since then, I've learned to infuse my mornings with little rituals--opening the curtains to let sunlight in, lighting a favorite candle, playing a lo-fi playlist. These aren't extravagant actions. They're simple choices that help me feel grounded and, honestly, a little more like the main character in my life.

Finding Joy in Gloomy Days

There are days when the weather's gloomy, my mood is low, and life just feels...gray. But I've learned to create what my friends and I call "ambiance". We type buzzwords into YouTube: cozy, rainy autumn night, jazz, crackling fireplace. Suddenly, the rain outside feels comforting instead of depressing. Cooking dinner becomes a ritual instead of chore. It's amazing how a small change in atmosphere can transform your experience of the present.

Intentional Living in an Unconscious World

An African proverb says: "When death finds you, may it find you alive." And that hit me. How often are we truly alive--aware, present, engaged?

So many of us are on autopilot: mindlessly scrolling, rushing from task to task, waiting for the weekend or that next vacation to feel something. But what if we don't wait? What if we chose to romanticize right now--this coffee, this walk, this deep breath?

Curated Doesn't Mean Fake

I've heard people criticize the idea of romanticizing life--claiming it's just another curated trend on social media. But to me, "curating" isn't about fakery. It's about choosing to add beauty, even if no one else sees it. Choosing to notice the way your sweater matches the flowers outside. Choosing to clean your room and light a candle not because you have to, but because you deserve a space that feels good.

Mindfulness, gratitude, and Mental Health

What's beautiful about romanticizing life is that it blends naturally with mindfulness and gratitude--two scientifically-backed tools for improving our mental health. studies show that mindful awareness reduces stress and improves sleep. Gratitude boosts dopamine and rewires the brain for happiness. And romanticization is simply these practices...lived creatively.

The Art of Slow Living

Slowing down has been one of the most radical, healing things I've done. I'm learning to eat without distractions, to go for walks and actually look at the sky, to sit on my balcony and feel the breeze. Slowing down reminds me that life isn't a race--it's a collection of meaningful moments that I can choose to notice or ignore.

Creating Everyday Magic

Here's how I've been romanticizing my life lately:
  • I light a candle while responding to emails.
  • I play classical music while folding laundry.
  • I style my outfits based on my mood, not necessity.
  • I intentionally savor the smell of my shampoo in the shower.
  • I pick music for my commute that matches the vibe i want for the day.
It's not about perfection. It's about presence.

Romanticism Is for Everyone

You don't need money, luxury, or a pinterest-perfect life to romanticize your world. It can be as small as cutting your strawberries into hearts, buying yourself flowers, or noticing how your breath slows, when you light incense.

Romanticizing life doesn't ignore hardship. It acknowledges it--and still dares to find beauty anyway. 

So here's my gentle reminder to you: 
You don't have to wait for your life to be extraordinary to feel alive. You can start right now, in your ordinary room, sipping your drink, listening to your ordinary playlist--and still feel something magical.

Because the truth is: life is magical. You just have to look closer.













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