There's a to-do-list I never write down, but it's aways running. It's in my mind when I wake up, buzzing beneath the surface while I work and whispering in the background as I try to fall asleep. It's not on an app, or a sticky note, or a family calendar. But it's there--constant, quiet, and exhausting. This is the invisible to-do-list: It's remembering the next doctor's appointment. It's knowing we're running low on toothpaste. It's tracking when the baby's onesies will be outgrown. It's realizing we're down to the last trash bag--and mentally noting to grab more. It's thinking ahead to birthdays, school events, and who needs an encouraging word this week. This list doesn't come with reminders or alarms. No one else gets a notification when something's overdue. It's just me--remembering. The Mental Load of Motherhood The mental load of motherhood can be an invisible burden that you carry day in and day out.This can ...